On this past May 4th, my wife (Tina) and I celebrated our 14th year Wedding Anniversary. Prior to our marriage I received some great advise from a very wise man (Pastor B.K. Lincoln). Here is what he said " Jerome when you get married, your wife is going to help you weather you want it or not, so let her." don't fight it, let her help".
As simple as this advise may sound due to my independent nature I found it quite difficult to follow even now after 14 years. So I must reflect back to 1 Peter 3:7. which says:
"Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered."
According to knowledge (pertaining to understanding) I am to live with my wife (whom has been given me)
Thank you Father for keeping me in humbled submission to you according to your will concerning the wife you have given... Aman
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